10 Ways to Teach Basic Music Skills to Your Children (Even If You’re Not a Musician)
Originally posted on Real Life
After college, I taught K-8 General Music, Chorus and Drama
for 4 years. When I had my first daughter, I organized homeschool music classes
for a while, and began teaching private piano and voice lessons from home.
Around the beginning of the year, parents
usually start asking me about getting music lessons for their kids. I usually
don’t take on more students in the middle of the year. Sometimes, they’ll get
someone else, and sometimes they say they’ll wait till August, and I put them
on the waiting list.
There are
several reasons your children might not be able to start lessons right away:
- Lesson times are unavailable
- You have monetary challenges
- The child is not quite old enough
- Your schedule is too packed
There are also several ways to start teaching basic music skills,
even as a non-musician parent. I’ll outline
a few things you can do at home to make sure your child is ready for lessons,
gains music skills as a homeschooler, or just wants to have some creative fun.
These suggestions are more for younger children (6 and under), but if your kids
enjoy them, then go ahead with them.
Singing:
- Do “sirens” with your voices, going as high and as low as possible. Make sure you and your child go into the “falsetto” or head voice when going high and don’t try to belt it out.
- Draw waves on paper. Follow the waves with your fingers, use the siren voice to mimic the highs and lows with your voice.
- Make sure your child hears CDs of other children singing. Sometimes, when kids only listen to adults or older teens singing, they fail to develop the upper range they would need to sing with a choir, and the ability to hear and match more than a few pitches. This is especially the case with popular music, as many of the melodies have a limited range.
- Talk about the difference between high/low and loud/soft. Many kids confuse the two. For example, if you tell them to sing low, they will sing quietly. Experiment with speaking and singing low and loud, high and soft, and all other combinations.
- Make up words to familiar tunes as you go through your day. “Hi Ho the Derrio” is a good one. “We’re putting on our clothes, we’re putting on our clothes, Hi Ho the Derrio…”
- Sing or play a short melody, and ask your child to repeat it.
Ear-training is an acquired skill, and is very important in any musical endeavor.
Instruments:
- “Act out” a familiar story with the piano. Take, for example, The Three Little Pigs. As the pigs are leaving home, ask, “How do think their walking would sound?” The child might play a
steady beat on one key, or alternate between the two. Have them experiment until they are satisfied with the outcome. Other questions to explore are:
“How would the wolf sound?” “What would the straw house sound like, as it’s falling down?” “What about the bricks?” - You could ask what clouds sound like? Rain? Snow? The possibilities are endless.
- If you don’t have a piano, any household items will do: pots and pans, spoons, toy maracas or rattles, anything that makes a noise.
- Get a good quality recorder from a local music store. Recorders are usually under $10, and provide good training for other wind instruments. Young children may not be able to cover the holes and play many notes, but teach them to blow slowly and evenly until they make a pleasing sound. For older children (3rd grade or older), buy a basic recorder book, and learn with them. I directed a homeschool recorder consort (group) once, who played authentic medieval music very well. We played music to underscore a play set in a castle, and the kids were really proud of themselves.
There is much
more that you can do, but I’ll stop there for now. The bottom line is: You
don’t have to be an expert to start your children on the path of learning
music!
What are some things you’ve done to explore music with your kids?
Editor’s Pick by Tracy at The Inspired Family. As a homeschooler of three young kids out here in the Rocky Mountain sticks where opportunities for music education- even in the primary schools- are few and far between, I was totally jazzed when I read, music teacher, Sarah’s post! As I told her, I’m on my way out to buy us matching kid/mummy recorders ASAP!
Can you say, Greensleeves?!
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Great suggestions! My 4-year-old son loves music. He makes up his own songs and everything.
This is a great post with wonderful suggestions. As a long time music educator I know that parents instilling a love of music at in their children an early age makes my job a bunch easier later on.
The philosopher Christopher Small had it right in suggesting that making music (musicking) is something we all do naturally and it is valid at every level. On of the worse thing we can do as music educators is to deter someone from learning or enjoying music because of our preconceived notions of ‘good’ and ‘bad’. Keep up the good work!
Thanks for this post. I’m (unfortunately) a non-musician who would like my son to have as much exposure to music as possible.
I found your site from Okay, Fine, Dammit and love it! Great idea. I’ll be back.
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voice lessons that also teaches proper breathing is the best, breathing and singing always go hand in hand *
my voice lessons were given to me by my aunt who also teaches some amateur pop singers to improve their voices ,-: