The Cone of Uncertainty

{by Rachel from A Southern Fairytale}

Southern is more than geography, it’s a lifestyle, it’s in the beat of our hearts, the soft lilt in our words; it’s in the traditions of cotillion and bunco, of cowboy boots and front porch swings, of moonshine and moonpies.

boots and tree

Southern is a birth right and a blessing.

One of the little things that we who live both in the South and on the Coast get to experience yearly is this little event you might be familiar with… it’s known as Hurricane Season.

Down here we live on the Coast and from June to November (because Hurricanes use calendars, of course) we live in this thing called The Cone of Uncertainty.

Cone of Uncertainty; I read those words as if they were said by James Earl Jones and giggle even while a chill races down my spine and my stomach tightens. We who live  on the coast can do that.  It’s called survival instinct.

We choose to live on the Gulf Coast where the breezes taste of salt and sand and the humidity is a gift to skin and a curse to hair, where even in the winter you can comfortably walk in the waves collecting shells.

We choose to live in the Cone of Uncertainty because the beauty of the Southern people is unmatched anywhere else.  You’ll never meet a stranger and you’ll likely never have a door closed in your face, we raise gentlemen and strong southern ladies down here.  Yes Ma’am and No Ma’am sprinkle the speech of even the youngest southern children.  Three year olds open and hold doors for others because they want to grow up to be just like their daddies.

It’s like picking dewberries in the summer, watching dragonflies flitting among the honeysuckle on Granny’s fence and family portraits in bluebonnets;

Posing among the bluebonnets

Being Southern is who we are, it’s in our bones.

I know why we return, why we stay and why we remain hopeful.

I know what it is to have numbered plywood in your garage.  I know what it is to have bottles of water, cases of ramen, gallons upon gallons of gasoline and ridiculous amounts of batteries in your home.  I know what it is to evacuate and evacuate and evacuate and just not have it in you to evacuate again.  I know what it is to watch the news with fear in your gut while trying to keep a smile on your face and a backbone of steel.

I have sighed that sigh of relief that is tinged with guilt when that hurricane shifts slightly to the South or North.  To have tears of relief course down my cheeks while simultaneous tears of grief flow for those now in the path of destruction.

I know it and yet, I stay.  I see the looks and I hear the; “Why do you stay? Isn’t it scary? Don’t you hope you can leave soon?” when people find out where we live.  “Yes, it can be scary,” I answer “but, we have insurance and Big Plastic Bins and Waterproof (hopefully) safes and a plan, we have a Hurricane Kit a store of canned food and batteries”

The truth is, I wouldn’t trade those months of living in the Cone of Uncertainty.. because I have this:

Sunrise on My Birthday

Because here, I can treat my kids to sunrises on the beach, s’mores cooked on a campfire on the beach, a night with more stars than even I knew existed, falling asleep to the sound of the waves crashing on the shore and the knowledge that anytime we want to we can drop it all, drive less than 30 minutes and lose ourselves in the vastness of God’s great beauty, the Gulf of Mexico.

pop 2

I’m privileged to live where the taste of salt is in the air, Chivalry still exists, everyone knows everyone and a good story requires knowledge of at least 3 generations.

“Y’all come on over tonight and we’ll cook somethin’ up while the kids play” is as much a formal invitation as is  required among southerners and these invitations require little more than a holler across the street, a quick phone call or a chance meeting in the store.  Manners and Morals aren’t something from days gone by, they’re alive and kickin’.  I’m proud to live where Bless Your Heart is both a blessing and.. well, not… depending on to whom it refers; where being called Honey isn’t condescending it’s loving, where Sweet Tea is the norm rather than the exception and Dr Pepper Rules.

Morning Routine Day 2

The South always comes back, always shows that its heart is matched only by its ability to recover.  I remember watching Hurricane Katrina hit New Orleans, watching the devastation with tears in my eyes and pain in my heart, at the same time saying a prayer of thanks that it wasn’t us.  With guilt and relief in my heart I joined others in dropping off food and clothes at donation sites and adding the people of New Orleans to my prayers.  Katrina put a fear in all of us who live in the Cone of Uncertainty because that was as bad as most of us have ever seen it. I remember in the days and weeks and months following Katrina hearing people say; “New Orleans will never recover, it’ll never come back from this”

I’ll admit that I had my own doubts, however, the city that I’d visited with my husband and walked the streets, listened to the music, felt the passion and life radiating from the very heart of the city and it’s every inhabitant, I couldn’t quite believe that it wouldn’t.  And New Orleanians have proven those people wrong.  Like the song says; “.. with a little help from (my) friends”  The South will always survive.

Today, August 24th, is the Fifth Anniversary of Hurricane Katrina.  Today friends across the country, will join Tide Loads of Hope in remembering the devastation that Katrina wrought upon one of our country’s strongest, most unique, vibrant and powerful cities. Today Tide is putting on a concert with Faith Hill, a woman who is the epitome of Southern grace and spirit and strength.  The concert, A Celebration of Hope with Faith Hill, will be free for New Orleans residents and those in the surrounding areas.  This is a celebration of the New Orleans area’s strength of spirit, community and a rejoicing of how far they’ve come in the last 5 years.

A Celebration of the Southern Spirit that can be brought to it’s knees but never beaten.

slippery when wet steps

So, here’s the thing, I’m going to stay on my coast, in the Cone of Uncertainty and while there are months that I’ll stalk the weather people, even when they butcher the small town Southern names:

It’s pronounced Ree-fury-yo, honey, not Ree-FYOO-Gee-yo (Refugio)

because for all the devastation and the fear and the uncertainty…

The Power, The Beauty, The Heart, The Hope, The Laughter, The Love, The Strength of The South make the Cone of Uncertainty, pretty damn unimpressive, after all.

I am proud and so honored that Megan, the goddess behind  Story Bleed asked me to submit a post as part of her Hope Remains carnival, sponsored by Tide Loads of Hope

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4 Comments to “The Cone of Uncertainty”

  1. Stunning imagery! I grew up close to the Mississippi coast, and every word you write here rings true for me. It is a beautiful life, and you capture it so well.
    Susan @WhyMommy recently posted..Chemo 2010- Day 1

  2. Thank you so much, Susan.
    xo <3
    Rachel ~ Southern Fairytale recently posted..Garlic Parmesan Pretzel Rods

  3. “I’m proud to live where Bless Your Heart is both a blessing and.. well, not… ”

    Love to hear your heart sing in these words, and though many thoughts were favorites, well, the above? Is my MOST favoriteist. Because I know exactly what you mean.

    Lovely…and a beautiful picture of the core of who “we” are. :)

    xo
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  4. Here is the 2nd time relating to come across your blog within the last few weeks. Appears like I should take note of it.

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